— 08.15.2026 —
Alexis & Toby
We’re Getting Married!
For any questions or concerns, please contact us at AlexisAndToby2026@gmail.com
Artwork by Lulu Yueming Qu
When
Saturday, August 15, 2026
Ceremony: 4:30pm—5pm
Reception: 5pm—10pm
Where
The Sanctuary Roosevelt Island
851 Main Street
New York, NY 10044
*There is a hotel in Manhattan called The Sanctuary - this is NOT our venue!
Attire
Semi-Formal / Dressy Casual
We would like to you feel comfortable, confident and a little fancy…something you can move in on the dance floor :)
Anticipated Weather
On average, the daytime high for this time of year is 82°F with high humidity.
Weather permitting, the ceremony will be held outdoors along the East River with the reception in a tented pavilion.
Lodging
We've reserved a block of rooms at The Graduate by Hilton New York on Roosevelt Island.
Click the button below to book online.
22 N Loop Rd
New York, NY 10044
Getting to The Sanctuary
Our venue, The Sanctuary, is on Roosevelt Island - located on the East River between Manhattan and Queens at 851 Main Street.
Please note that there is a hotel on Manhattan called The Sanctuary - this is NOT our venue!
The F train is the only Subway line that stops on Roosevelt Island. This station is wheelchair accessible.
For the same price as the Subway, take the Roosevelt Island Tramway from Manhattan at 59th St and 2nd Ave. The tram is open until 3:30am on Saturdays and runs every 7-15 minutes. You pay for the tram the same way as the Subway (with contactless card).
Once you’ve reached Roosevelt Island:
Take the Red bus north, and get off at Oculus. Please note that the bus runs every 10 minutes during the day and every 30 minutes at night
Another option: From the subway station or tramway, enjoy the promenade along the East River with views of the skyline (approximately 20 minutes from the subway/tram).
Ubers, Lyfts and Taxis are also reliable in NYC and will get you from any borough to the venue.
The venue has limited parking available(four parking spots). Please let us know if you will be bringing your own vehicle so we can make sure there is a space for you.
Tips for Navigating NYC
Many of you are traveling across the country to celebrate with us. We’ve included a few tips for getting around NYC so that you feel comfortable and confident in the concrete jungle.
There are 3 main airports in the New York City area - La Guardia, JFK, and Newark. We personally recommend La Guardia due to its user-friendliness and proximity to the city.
Download the Google Maps app, or our personal favorite - Citymapper - to guide you to your desired destination.
There are several ways to travel throughout NYC, first and foremost by public transit. For $3.00 per ride, you can take the Subway or bus as far as you would like. A few tips for using public transit:
Pay by using a contactless card (credit/debit, phone, or wearable) or pre-paid OMNY card.
Refer to signage on the platform to ensure you’re traveling the correct direction - uptown (north), downtown (south), east or west.
Be aware of express lines, which skip stops, versus local lines.
Be aware of your surroundings and secure personal belongings.
Unfortunately not every Subway station is wheelchair accessible or has escalators. Be prepared to climb a lot of stairs. We recommend taking the bus for a more wheelchair and stroller friendly experience.
Ubers, Lyfts and Taxis are also abundant and reliable, though not as budget friendly as public transit.
Use the Uber or Lyft app to request a ride from your location. Always double check the license plate and driver details when the car arrives.
Never accept rides from unauthorized drivers. Only use official ground transportation services by booking on an app and/or going to a designated pickup area.
Our wedding venue has very limited parking. Please email us at AlexisAndToby2026@gmail.com if you will be bringing your own car so we can ensure there is a parking space available for your use.
It can be difficult to find restrooms open to public in NYC, and when you’ve gotta go, you’ve gotta GO. Use the linked Google Map Got 2 Go NYC for a map of bathroom recommendations throughout all 5 boroughs.
NYC is one of the safest cities in the US and the world.
Registry
Your presence means the world to us and is all we ask for. If you'd like to contribute to our registry or honeymoon funds, click the button below to be redirected to our Zola wishlist.
Thank you and we’re so excited to celebrate with you!
While you’re here…
these are some of our favorite places and things to do in NYC.
Restaurants, Bars & Cafes
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C as in Charlie
Located in Noho
5 Bleeker St 10012
-Creative combination of Korean & Southern culinary traditions
-Small plates, offers a tasting menu
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Ahgassi Gopchang
Located in Koreatown / Midtown South
1 E 32nd St 10016
-Premium Korean BBQ and favorite of international K-Pop group, BTS
-Specializes in roast beef intestines but offers a wide range of cuts
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Forsythia
Alexis’ Favorite
Located on the Lower East Side
9 Stanton St 10002
-Handmade pastas, unforgettable focaccia, and drink pairings
-$100+ per person, offers a tasting menu
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Crif Dogs
Toby’s Favorite
Located in the East Village
113 St Marks Pl 10009
-Creative hotdog eatery with signature truffle tots
-Retro arcade games
-Entrance to a speakeasy through a vintage telephone booth
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Jacob's Pickles
Located on the Upper West Side
509 Amsterdam Ave 10024 (next door to Tiki Chick)
-Southern comfort food in LARGE portions (you will have leftovers)
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Tiki Chick
Located on the Upper West Side
517 Amsterdam Ave 10024 (next door to Jacob’s Pickles)
-Tropical inspired cocktails & fun vibes
-Delicious drunk sandwiches for a low price
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Cafe China
Located in Midtown
59 W 37th St 10018
-Michelin star authentic Chinese food
-Sichuan menu is not for the weak and runs spicier than average
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Harlem Public
Located in Hamilton Heights
3612 Broadway 10031
-Cozy pub with tasty burgers, sandwiches & craft beer
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Indian Accent
Located in Midtown
123 W 56th St 10019
-Michelin star Indian cuisine with a modern take
-$100 per person, offers a tasting menu
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Caffe Buon Gusto
Located on the Upper East Side
236 E 77th St 10075
-Cozy, intimate restaurant with authentic Italian cuisine
-Excellent service & friendly staff
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Peaches
Located in Bed-Stuy Brooklyn
393 Lewis Ave 11233
-Southern comfort food in a historic brownstone neighborhood
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7th Street Burger
-Grab and go greasy goodness from almost anywhere
-Smash burgers, fries, and that’s it
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Lexington Publick
Located on the Upper East Side
1504 Lexington Ave 10029
-$1 hotdogs after 9pm with any drink purchase
-Drag bingo led by Queen Phoebe Jeebies every 3rd Saturday of the month
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Smør
Located in the East Village (Manhattan) OR Clinton Hill (Brooklyn)
441 E 12th St 10009 OR 26 Putnam Ave 11238
-A snug Scandinavian restaurant serving Nordic inspired cuisine
-Brooklyn location includes a bakery & coffeehouse
Museums, Experiences, Parks & Walks
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Things to do on Roosevelt Island
-Take the Tramway to and from Manhattan for the same price as the Subway
-Explore South Point Park & Four Freedoms Park (named after FDR’s Four Freedoms speech). While you’re in the area, stop by the ruins of Smallpox Memorial Hospital
-Wander Light House Park and see The Girl Puzzle Monument - an installation to honor Nellie Bly’s legacy (click the link below for more information about the installation and free audio tour)
-Grab a drink and small bites at the Panorama Room in the Graduate Hotel - also where we’ve reserved a block of rooms!
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MoMa (Museum of Modern Art)
Located in Midtown
11 W 53rd St 10019
-Explore modern and contemporary works from the 1880s to today with notable works from Van Gogh, Claude Monet, Salvador Dalí, Pablo Picasso, Andy Warhol, and more.
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Museum of Natural History
Toby’s Favorite
Located on the Upper West Side
200 Central Prk W 10024
-A must see in NYC. The museum is pay what you can, so we also recommend booking an additional experience in the museum, including but not limited to the butterfly vivarium, age of dinosaurs, world beyond earth, and adventures in the milky way
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Transit Museum
Located in Downtown Brooklyn
99 Schermerhorn St 11201
-Explore a decommissioned subway station in Brooklyn and the impact of public transit on the growth and development of NYC
-For members only - tickets are occasionally released to see the Jewel in the Crown: Old Town City Hall Station (a hot ticket that MUST be booked in advance)
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The Container Store
Alexis’ Favorite
Located in Chelsea
629 6th Ave 10011
-Shop and explore beauty on par with the contents of the MoMA and Met - marvel at The Container Store and the art of stuff that holds other stuff
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The Met Cloisters
Located in Inwood
99 Margaret Corbin Dr 10040
-Part of the Metropolitan Museum of Art, The Cloisters is an offsite collection of European medieval art and architecture, with emphasis on the Romanesque and Gothic periods
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Little Italy & Chinatown
Located in the Lower East Side near the Brooklyn Bridge
-Take a self-guided tour through the unique and vibrant neighborhoods of Little Italy and Chinatown for a selection of authentic and diverse foods.
-We recommend bringing cash as many businesses are cash only.
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Tenement Museum
Located on the Lower East Side
103 Orchard St 10002
-Visualize homes of immigrants, migrants and refugees and learn their stories to connect the past with the present to build a more inclusive American society
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The High Line
Located in Chelsea / Hudson Yards
-A popular public park 30 feet above street level on an old rail line, with river and city views
-Start or end your walk at Hudson Yards, one of NYC’s newest neighborhoods, with world class shopping, dining, and views of The Vessel
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Little Island Park
Located off the west side of Manhattan in the Meatpacking District
Pier 55 at Hudson River Park 10014
-An artificial island within Hudson River Park with a unique green space, food trucks, ampitheatre and unbeatable skyline views
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See a Show
A few options for same day tickets:
-Go to the box office when it opens for rush tickets at a discounted rate and without service fees. Box offices may also offer standing room only tickets.
-Visit the TKTS booth (in Times Square OR Lincoln Center). We recommend having a few options in mind of shows you’d like to see, since not every show has discounted tickets available each day. Service fees apply.
-Though admittance is never guaranteed, enter digital lotteries in advance for discounted tickets.
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Recommended Walks & Bike Rides
Rent a bike using the Citi Bike app or rental service within the city
-Alexis’ Favorite - Historic Green-Wood Cemetery. Make sure you stop by the catabombs and art installations throughout the park
-Central Park East & West Drive loop - the loop circles the entire park (6 miles total)
-Hudson River Waterfront Greenway - stretches from Battery Park to the Little Red Lighthouse beneath the George Washington Bridge (32 miles total)
-The Brooklyn Bridge
-The Promenade along Roosevelt Island
